Marriage is sacred in many religions, it binds two persons
(a man and a woman) to share their life to each other and open their hearts in
making or having a family. Many believed that it is forbidden to separate or to
terminate a couple’s marriage once they are bound to each other. Yet many
countries are proposing a bill that would legalize the termination/separation
of a bound couple or so called divorce.
According to Webster, Divorce is a legal or official
separation of two married couples. There are many factors that causes Divorce
to a couple and of course Effects will follow.
Before anything else let us first discuss the types of
Divorce(According to my Research).
Contested
Divorce – both parties( the man and the woman ) is required to have a lawyer
and of course with such action is very expensive for the lawyer will have to do
a lot of work and it is by his hand if the case will win or not. Spouses are
more limited with this type of divorce.
At-Fault
Divorce – in every case there is always a proof or evidence and in divorce (Al-Fault
Divorce) it is the only way that a party can terminate their marriage.
Providing proof like how incompetent the wife/husband is.
No-Fault
Divorce – Opposite to At-Fault Divorce, this type of divorce does not require
any proof or evidence. A simple “Yes” is enough even though the opposing party
says “No”. However, the court will still need proof when it comes to dividing
the properties of the couple.
Summary
Divorce – Applied in some Jurisdiction, this type of divorce happens when
spouses failed to provide the admissibility of couple. Examples( according to
Wiki) are Short marriage, No Children, minimal economical income and etc.
Uncontested
Divorce – Divorce which doesn’t need any Lawyer or a Collaborative Counsel is a
Uncontested Divorce. Divorce is acceptable if the two parties agree on their decision
to withdraw and split their marriage. After discussing on how to split their
properties, both parties can approach the court and most likely the approval
for this is surefire.
Most cases of divorce happen because couples tend to take
marriage for granted, some are in a hurry that they didn’t have time thinking
what is going to happen next. And for some, marriage only serves as a “title”
that they must attain in life and after attaining it they will proceed with
divorce.
Of course with such action comes with great consequence
affecting the economical, psychological and even academic of a person. Economical
and Academic actually come along together, studies shows that most of the
children living in a divorced family tend to lack self-esteem affecting their
academic and morality. This is due to the fact that they pretty much survive
through independency and misguided with their purpose in life. Despite of their
negativity, there are still those who tend to develop themselves and make it as
a challenge for them in their life. With good academic comes with good economy.
If a child is low on academic due to a divorced family then he/she may have
difficulty in progressing and improving the economy of the country and for
him/herself.
In our daily life
where mistake is no stranger to us, people tend to make hasty decisions as if
they are in a hurry. We have been given the gift of life, no matter how long or
short it is we must take it seriously. Partners should think wisely on their
strategic decisions specially things like marriage. Marriage is not only a game
for two but a game in which the two of you should enjoy and spend the rest of
your life and your family.
